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CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long...
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CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating lives, relationships, and what it's really like to navigate the sea of love in Atlanta. On CockTales, the ladies gather over great drinks and discuss the latest happenings in their sexual experiences dating lives.
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CockTales: Dirty Discussions
CockTales: Dirty Discussions
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Ep. 403 "What Happened To The Old CockTales?"
18 JUL 2024 · We took a trip down memory lane, reflecting on our journey with the podcast. From our early days and memorable episodes to how much we've grown and changed over the years, it was a heartfelt discussion about our evolution and the support we've received from our listeners.
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Ep. 402 "Daddy Always Said You Gotta Check Her Feet" ft. Spencer
11 JUL 2024 · This week we're joined by comedian Spencer Neal. We talk about his career in comedy, supporting women's sports, sleeping with married women, and his love of feet.
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Ep. 401 "Babies & Breakups" Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
4 JUL 2024 · This week we're catching up on real estate, run clubs, and road trips. Plus a wild weird sex story that no one would expect plus a a quick chat on what instantly turns us on. We also answer someone's advice email about not liking her man's situation with his child, but wanting to stick out for an interesting reason.
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EP. 400! "Chew Me Off The Bone Baby!" ft. High Maintenance Podcast
27 JUN 2024 · On the 400th episode we celebrate a little with special guests from the High Maintenance Podcast, Killah and Shy Thug. We are so grateful for all of our listeners, viewers, and past guests! We reminisce about memorable moments from previous episodes. And we also run down a long list of random scenarios to see just how corny or cute we like our men.
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Ep. 399 "Annie Fix My Life" ft. Annie Moody
20 JUN 2024 · This week we're joined by life coach, Annie Moody. Annie discusses the importance of being a supportive partner in a relationship. She emphasizes that being supportive involves understanding, picking up the slack, and accepting apologies when mistakes are made. Annie mentions that being a supportive partner means leaving space for the other person to live their life and respecting their individuality. She highlights the significance of mutual support, where both partners are willing to stand by each other and show understanding in times of need.
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Ep. 398 "Is Regular Degular Dating Really So Bad?" ft. Jojo Alonso
13 JUN 2024 · This week we're joined by media personality Jojo Alonso. Her viral moments on podcasts and on the radio have us wondering if she's all talk or is this really the life Jojo Alonso lives. Join us as we explore the woman behind the viral clips.
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Ep. 397 "Have A Little Compassion"
6 JUN 2024 · This week the ladies share exciting adventures coming up as well as the realities of DV in light of the Diddy video that was released.
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Ep. 396 "Who's the Boss? Navigating Love and Leadership"
30 MAY 2024 · On this episode we discuss attending a friend's wedding and upcoming travel plans! (Don't forget to fill out Kiki's survey/questionnaire and if you're interested in a cold and beautiful destination, travel with Medinah to Iceland!) Now for the main discussion; are you a good leader? Are you a good listener? And when women ask to be led, are they truly open to it? Hear our takes on all of it.
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SHOW NOTES:
- Communication and Consideration in Relationships:
- The podcast episode delves into the crucial role of communication and consideration in distinguishing between controlling behavior and effective leadership within a relationship.
- Kiki and Medinah Monroe underscore the difference between a controlling partner and a good leader by emphasizing the importance of active listening and fostering a safe environment for open dialogue.
- They illustrate this distinction with an example where a controlling individual would make decisions unilaterally without regard for their partner's thoughts or feelings, whereas a good leader would engage in discussions, seek feedback, and make decisions that benefit both parties.
- The hosts emphasize the significance of mutual understanding, thoughtful decision-making, and consideration for each other's needs and desires in maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic.
- They also highlight the transformative impact of effective communication in relationships, where partners should feel empowered to express their opinions and concerns without fear of judgment or dismissal.
- The episode underscores the necessity of mutual respect, attentive listening, and a collaborative approach to decision-making in relationships to cultivate a harmonious balance between leadership and autonomy.
In the podcast episode, Kiki and Medinah stress the importance of both partners having a voice and being actively engaged in decision-making processes to uphold a healthy relationship dynamic. Kiki expresses her preference for the man to take the lead in a relationship and make decisions, while also emphasizing the significance of voicing concerns and opinions when necessary. She asserts that she will speak up if she disagrees with the direction of things or if she requires clarification.Medinah recounts an experience where a partner expressed dissatisfaction with her listening skills and leadership approach. She attentively listened to their feedback and made adjustments in an attempt to improve the situation. Despite her efforts, the relationship did not progress positively, highlighting the necessity for both partners to communicate openly and have their perspectives acknowledged in decision-making processes.
The podcast conversation underscores the distinction between listening and agreeing, emphasizing the importance of both partners actively listening to each other's viewpoints, even in moments of disagreement. Allowing each partner to have a voice and feel heard in decision-making processes fosters mutual respect, understanding, and a healthy relationship dynamic. This practice ensures that both individuals feel valued and respected, ultimately enhancing communication and relationship satisfaction.
- The hosts also discuss the significance of recognizing when a relationship is not conducive to personal growth and well-being, despite efforts to adapt. Kiki shares her experience of adjusting her behavior based on a partner's feedback, only to realize that the relationship was still not fulfilling for her. This narrative underscores the importance of maintaining personal boundaries and opinions within a relationship.
- The conversation further highlights the importance of prioritizing personal growth and happiness in relationships. It is essential to acknowledge when a relationship is not aligning with one's values or needs. Kiki's decision to end the relationship after attempting to make adjustments exemplifies the value of prioritizing personal well-being over forcing a relationship that is not mutually beneficial.
- The hosts stress the importance of being willing to end a relationship if it no longer serves personal growth and happiness. Recognizing when efforts to adapt are not yielding positive results and having the courage to walk away from a detrimental situation is crucial for self-care and personal development. The willingness to end a relationship that is not conducive to personal well-being is a pivotal aspect of fostering growth and happiness.
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Ep. 395 "Matchmaking From Top To Bottom" ft. Lamont White The Gay Dating Coach & Matchmaker
23 MAY 2024 · This week we have a special guest, Lamont White, the founder of A Better Way to Meet, an Atlanta-based matchmaking company for gay men. Lamont shares his journey from being a therapist to becoming a matchmaker and dating coach, emphasizing the unique challenges and dynamics within the gay dating scene.
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Dating coaching and matchmaking for gay men, as discussed in the podcast episode, focuses on several key factors to ensure successful matches. These factors include attractiveness, independence, masculinity, and sexual compatibility.
Attractiveness plays a significant role in the matchmaking process. While attractiveness can vary from person to person, it is essential to consider physical appearance as a factor in potential matches. This includes factors like body type, height, and overall physical appeal.
Independence is another crucial aspect considered in matchmaking for gay men. The ability to be self-sufficient and not rely on a partner for financial or emotional support is valued. Independence shows maturity and a sense of self-reliance, which can contribute to a healthy and balanced relationship.
Masculinity is also a key factor in matchmaking for gay men. While masculinity can be expressed in various ways, having a level of masculinity that aligns with the individual's preferences is important. Some individuals may prefer partners who exhibit more traditional masculine traits, while others may be open to a range of expressions of masculinity.
Sexual compatibility is a fundamental aspect of matchmaking for gay men. Understanding each individual's preferences, roles (top, bottom, versatile), and boundaries in the bedroom is crucial for creating successful and fulfilling relationships. Open communication about sexual preferences and desires is essential for ensuring compatibility in this area.
Overall, dating coaching and matchmaking for gay men aim to create matches based on a combination of these factors to foster healthy, fulfilling, and long-lasting relationships. By considering attractiveness, independence, masculinity, and sexual compatibility, matchmaking professionals can help individuals find partners who align with their values, preferences, and relationship goals.
Effective communication and vulnerability are crucial components in maintaining a healthy dynamic in relationships, as highlighted in the podcast episode. The conversation between the host and the guest, Lamont, emphasized the importance of open communication and vulnerability in relationships to avoid losing a part of oneself.
Lamont, as a dating coach and matchmaker, shared insights on how individuals often struggle with communication and vulnerability in relationships. He mentioned that many people, both men and women, have difficulty expressing their true feelings and desires on dates. This lack of effective communication can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and ultimately, a loss of connection in the relationship.
Furthermore, the podcast discussed how individuals sometimes struggle with traditional gender roles and expectations in relationships. The idea that one partner must lead while the other follows can create a power dynamic that may stifle individual expression and authenticity. Lamont emphasized the importance of equity in relationships, where both partners are encouraged to thrive and shine in their unique qualities.
The conversation also touched upon the concept of being able to listen and consider each other's concerns in a relationship. It was highlighted that a secure and healthy relationship involves both partners being able to communicate their feelings, thoughts, and desires openly. This allows for a deeper level of understanding, empathy, and connection between partners.
In conclusion, the podcast episode underscored that effective communication and vulnerability are essential for maintaining a healthy and thriving relationship. By being able to express oneself authentically, listen to each other's concerns, and support each other's growth, individuals can avoid losing a part of themselves and cultivate a strong and fulfilling dynamic in their relationships.
In the podcast episode, Lamont discusses the importance of being able to lead in a relationship while also listening to and considering the concerns and feelings of your partner. He emphasizes that in a healthy relationship, both partners should be able to communicate openly and honestly with each other. This communication allows for mutual growth and understanding within the relationship.
Lamont highlights the idea that traditional gender roles often dictate that a man should lead in a relationship while the woman supports him. However, he challenges this notion by advocating for equity in relationships. He believes that both partners should be able to shine in their strengths and qualities, regardless of gender roles. This approach allows for a more balanced and fulfilling relationship where both individuals can thrive.
The concept of being a leader in a relationship, according to Lamont, involves not only making decisions but also actively listening to your partner's concerns and feelings. By taking into consideration the thoughts and emotions of your partner, you can create a space where both individuals feel heard and valued. This practice fosters mutual growth and understanding within the relationship.
Lamont also touches on the idea that a good leader in a relationship should be able to make executive decisions while still prioritizing the well-being and happiness of their partner. This balance between assertiveness and empathy is crucial in creating a healthy and harmonious relationship where both partners feel respected and supported.
Overall, the key takeaway from the episode is that being able to lead in a relationship goes hand in hand with being a good listener and considering the concerns and feelings of your partner. This approach fosters mutual growth, understanding, and a strong foundation for a successful and fulfilling relationship.
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Ep. 394 "This Too Shall Pass" ft. Ariel B. w/ hosts Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe
16 MAY 2024 · **TRIGGER WARNING: We want to let you know that today's episode addresses the topic of domestic violence, which may be distressing or triggering for some listeners. If you or someone you know needs support, please reach out to trusted friends, family, or professional organizations. If you're in immediate danger, call emergency services.
This week we are joined by Ariel B., host of "This Too Shall Pass" podcast, who bravely shared her personal journey of surviving an abusive relationship, and finding herself after so many major life changing experiences. She sheds light on the importance of understanding family dynamics and relationships, particularly when warning signs are present, and how that directly impacted her life.
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Here are key takeaways from the episode that emphasize the significance of delving deeper into family dynamics:
Recognizing Warning Signs: Ariel candidly discussed how she overlooked crucial red flags in her relationship with her ex-husband, such as his anger issues and concerning behavior when under the influence. These warning signs were apparent early on but were not addressed or questioned at the time.
Family Background: Ariel stressed the importance of comprehending a partner's family background. She revealed that her ex-husband came from a family with a history of abuse and dysfunctional dynamics, potentially influencing his behavior. This underscores the need to investigate and understand a partner's family history to identify potential issues or patterns.
Impact on Children: Ariel's experience highlighted how family dynamics and relationships can impact children. Her son exhibited fear and discomfort around her ex-husband's behavior, illustrating the influence of family dynamics on children's emotional well-being.
Seeking Support: Ariel's friend played a pivotal role in supporting her by consistently checking in and encouraging open communication. This underscores the importance of having a supportive network that provides a safe space to discuss concerns and red flags in relationships.
Moving Forward: Ariel's journey of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and focusing on self-healing underscores the importance of introspection and self-care after enduring challenging relationships. Addressing past traumas, understanding family dynamics, and prioritizing mental and emotional well-being are crucial before entering new relationships.
This episode highlights the importance of exploring family dynamics and relationships to identify issues, patterns, and warning signs. Understanding a partner's family background can empower individuals to make informed decisions, recognize red flags, and prioritize emotional well-being in relationships.
The episode also emphasizes the significance of having a supportive friend who consistently checks in and ensures one's well-being, especially in toxic situations. Ariel's friend's unwavering support created a safe space for open communication, enabling Ariel to address the challenges she faced.
A supportive friend's persistent presence can be instrumental in helping individuals navigate toxic situations. By offering genuine care and encouragement, such friendships provide the strength needed to address toxicity and make positive changes.
Overall, the podcast episode underscores the importance of having a supportive friend who prioritizes well-being. This kind of friendship can help individuals recognize, address, and overcome toxic situations.
Seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and allowing time for healing are essential steps in moving forward from abusive relationships. Ariel B.'s journey of healing and self-discovery exemplifies the importance of these actions in overcoming the aftermath of abuse.
Ariel's experience highlights the significance of therapy in processing the emotional impact of abuse. Therapy provides a safe space to explore feelings, address deep-rooted issues, and develop healthy coping mechanisms.
Disassociating from false responsibilities is crucial in the healing process. Recognizing that the abuse was not their fault empowers individuals to prioritize their well-being and healing.
Taking time to process and heal is vital in recovering from abusive relationships. Ariel's journey of self-reflection and therapy showcases the importance of allowing oneself the necessary time and space to heal from emotional wounds.
In essence, Ariel's story emphasizes the importance of seeking therapy, letting go of false responsibilities, and dedicating time to heal as essential steps in overcoming the effects of abusive relationships. These actions empower individuals to prioritize mental health and embark on a journey towards healing and self-empowerment.
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