This will be an open forum for mothers & fathers to give their opinions on what is in the best interst of the child? The single parent home has become an epidemic within the African American community and I ask the question of how did we get here? The conflict of baby mothers and fathers has increased over the last 4 decades and the very thought of our children being raised in a 2 parent home has almost become a thing of the past. Who wins in the end when a child is seperate from their mother or father? What are the chances of a child becoming sucessful and becoming a failure? Can things be resolved between parents so that the child may grow? The increase of violence has become the norm in households on men and women part when it comes to parenting. Why? Are African Americans aware of the value of legacy? What is parenting in 2022? Can the black family be saved at this point?