For the first time I find myself thinking about how the heck my life is going to unfold in the wake of this divorce.
And that's crucial, because when this all went down I couldn't even imagine getting to this point.

People would say, "Oh, it was the best thing that's ever happened to me," and on and on and on.
And though I wouldn't necessarily say that, I will say that I'm getting excited, albeit a little, about heading out to Italy on an eating tour!