I'm at the point where I've realized that I can no longer look to something or someone outside of myself to heal myself.

I've done it.
It sucks.
No white horses are coming to save me.
I have to do the work.
And for me, the work involves reexamining my beliefs, my values, and how I've shown up in relationships and asking the questions, the tough questions about what the answers to those questions are.

I'm up for the challenge.
Oh, and one more thing: This is a day to day process, comittment. A moment to moment exploration.