Expectations: The Root of All Disconnection

Nov 4, 2022 · 21m 30s
Expectations: The Root of All Disconnection
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The root of all relationship disconnections traces to the same source—expectations. Are you ready to learn what expectations mean for your relationship? Do you want to know how you can...

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The root of all relationship disconnections traces to the same source—expectations. Are you ready to learn what expectations mean for your relationship? Do you want to know how you can use values to add substance to life with a significant other? A coach can help you distinguish between expectations and values.

Expectations require one person in a relationship to live their life according to the other person's desires. Does this sound familiar? Have you ever found yourself in a situation like this?

If you're ready to learn more about why expectations are the root of all disconnection, then tune into this episode of Clarity Coach, where host Rockie Lee and co-host Kimberly discuss ways that couples can develop values for a healthier relationship.

Expectations are the number one reason for stumbling blocks in relationships. This episode is your chance to know the difference between an expectation and a value so that you and your partner can make the best of your relationship.

What Is an Expectation?

Rockie kicks things off by explaining the contrast between an expectation and a value. Then he continues by giving real-life examples of each.

Then Rockie talks about how couples react to things they don't have in their marriage and how they can create what they want instead.

If you and your partner are having trouble in your relationship, expectations could be the root of the problem. You don't have to continue stumbling along, as Rockie explains.

How Do Expectations Affect Marriage?

Rockie provides examples of couples' expectations and their impact on how they interact with each other.

Next, he provides ways that couples can add value to their marriage to help elevate themselves and their relationship.

These examples may sound familiar to you if expectations exist in your marriage. As you'll learn in this episode, it doesn't have to be that way.

Can We Move Away from Expectations?

Then Rockie segues into a discussion about a huge stumbling block married couples face when communicating. He and Kimberly also answer questions like:

- What is the source of expectations couples have for each other?
- Why do expectations cause stumbling blocks in marriages?
- What are some kinds of expectations that affect relationships?

Now ask yourself these two questions: Have you and your partner ever hurled names and
accusations at each other? Do you want to know how to replace the expectations in your
relationship with values? If you answered yes to either one or both questions, then you could use the advice Rockie shares in this episode.

How Can I Recognize Values in My Relationship?

Then Rockie talks about why expectations are such a stumbling block in marriage and how
couples can use values to move away from them.

The values Rockie uses as examples are realistic and can have a positive impact when used
correctly.

Being able to recognize what expectations are can help you avoid using them against your
partner. Do any of the expectations Rockie uses as examples sound familiar?

Rockie wraps up the episode by sharing a tip that couples can use right now to help eliminate their expectations and add value to how they communicate with their partner.

Are You Ready to Add Value to Your Relationship?

Do you want more value than expectations in your relationship? Are you ready to stop stumbling through poor communication with your partner? Listen to the full episode now, and then share your questions and comments below. We look forward to discussing them with you!

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Website: http://www.claritycoach.ca/

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