Today we are talking about being INTENTIONAL.
In 2020 it has become so normal to have a space filler in your life.
To invite women/ men into our spaces until the next best thing comes along.
This has been a unique year in the world of dating. We had to pivot and use social media, online dating apps and virtually dating experiences to build connections. I noticed this year that despite the world-changing, some individuals remain the same. We date/entertain people to combat loneliness. We see no end goal in being with the person, but that individual can be “space fillers” until something better comes along. On Clubhouse, they call it “fluffing”.
So, are we fluffing in 2021? Are we joining dating apps know that we are emotionally unavailable?
Or better yet, just not interested, but would rather “fake it”, until the next best thing comes along?
If this is you? Stop wasting people's time?
Regardless, check out EPISODE 6 on my podcast as we look into this world of space fillers, fluffing and bypassing time.