Welcome back!! Up Next the ladies review HBO comedy special "Rothaniel" featuring American stand-up comedian, actor, and filmmaker, Jerrod Carmichael. The theme is secrets! He kept his birth name and sexual orientation a secret until now. The conversation gets personal as Moni and Kat talk about abortion rights and how Kat used to be a pro-lifer. They also touch on infidelity, childhood trauma, the side effects of shame. Some important questions are asked: Is chronic cheating resulting in a secrect family "morally better" than being gay in our community? Can women learn to love their genitals as much as men seem to love theirs? Whew, find out what the ladies have to say about all this. Tune in and enjoy!! Dedication: Moni : Every episode is dedicated to our listeners, always. Also to the Fake Ass Book Club consistantly publishing epidoses for almost a full year! Kat: Voters in mid-term elections, Roe vs Wade, Abortion Rights, Planned Parenthood and reproductive freedom. Email: thefabpodcast@gmail.com https://thefabpodcast.fireside.fm/subscribe *Fun Quotes from the episode: * -"I wish I felt about my genitals the way men feel about theirs." They are so proud of it, look at what I got, I should share it with the world!" -"They're always trying to serve their dicks." -"I suck dick too, no one's clapping for me!" Notes: Carmichael has released three stand-up comedy specials on HBO: Love at the Store (2014), 8 (2017), and Rothaniel (2022). He also co-created, co-wrote, produced, and starred in the semiautobiographical NBC sitcom The Carmichael Show (2015–2017).https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jerrod_Carmichael Netflix documentary: The Principles of Pleasure https://www.netflix.com/title/81137265 ** Kat's reference to Bible verse in Numbers:** Numbers 5:11-31:New International Version The Test for an Unfaithful Wife 11 Then the Lord said to Moses, 12 “Speak to the Israelites and say to them: ‘If a man’s wife goes astray and is unfaithful to him 13 so that another man has sexual relations with her, and this is hidden from her husband and her impurity is undetected (since there is no witness against her and she has not been caught in the act), 14 and if feelings of jealousy come over her husband and he suspects his wife and she is impure—or if he is jealous and suspects her even though she is not impure— 15 then he is to take his wife to the priest. He must also take an offering of a tenth of an ephah[a] of barley flour on her behalf. He must not pour olive oil on it or put incense on it, because it is a grain offering for jealousy, a reminder-offering to draw attention to wrongdoing. 16 “‘The priest shall bring her and have her stand before the Lord. 17 Then he shall take some holy water in a clay jar and put some dust from the tabernacle floor into the water. 18 After the priest has had the woman stand before the Lord, he shall loosen her hair and place in her hands the reminder-offering, the grain offering for jealousy, while he himself holds the bitter water that brings a curse. 19 Then the priest shall put the woman under oath and say to her, “If no other man has had sexual relations with you and you have not gone astray and become impure while married to your husband, may this bitter water that brings a curse not harm you. 20 But if you have gone astray while married to your husband and you have made yourself impure by having sexual relations with a man other than your husband”— 21 here the priest is to put the woman under this curse—“may the Lord cause you to become a curse[b] among your people when he makes your womb miscarry and your abdomen swell. 22 May this water that brings a curse enter your body so that your abdomen swells or your womb miscarries.”