Amy Nobile is a renowned coach, author, and entrepreneur who revolutionized the world of online dating through her coaching business, Love Amy. She provides personalized guidance and practical strategies for achieving success in the digital dating world. Her transformative coaching programs have touched countless lives, helping people find romantic fulfillment.

We’re so excited to have Amy on the show to delve into the intriguing world of online dating in a conversation with hosts of vastly different generations. In this episode, we enjoy Amy’s very practical advice, explore the pitfalls of online dating, and discover why Amy once juggled five to six dates a day when she found herself newly single. With a keen understanding of the dating landscape, Amy reveals such details as what photographs work best (guys—avoid photos showing you triumphantly holding a dead deep sea fish), what to do if the real date has no resemblance to the photo (scram), and how men continually exaggerate their height (and why height doesn’t matter). She emphasizes the importance of approaching online dating with a mindset of abundance. From her recommendation of 45-minute screener dates to crafting your own first date roadmap, she gives listeners ideas for how to see if you’re in alignment with your date during those first few meetings.


“That same amazing person you’re going to meet in real life is also on dating apps - you’re just not going to recognize them." - Amy Nobile


"You can only meet someone as deeply as you’ve met yourself." - Amy Nobile


"It only takes one. Even when you're really frustrated, try to remain positive because your person is right around the corner." - Amy Nobile


This week on Disarming Data:

• Some of the past stories we carry with us from our past dating life
• Why online dating is often a terrible shop window
• Why Amy was organizing five to six dates in a day when she was newly single
• The typical male/female mix of Amy’s clients and why the men typically focus on understanding the algorithms on the dating apps
• Why you need to come from a place of ‘yes’ when you’re dating online
• Most significant mistakes men and women make when posting their pictures on a dating app
• Why you’re not trying to appeal to the masses, you’re trying to attract that one special person
• Amy’s key tips for success with online dating
• Why Amy recommends 45-minute screener dates to start off with
• The first date roadmap and how to figure yours out
• Are you a terrible person if you ghost people on a dating app?
• Amy’s favorite conversation-starter questions for dates

Connect with Amy Nobile:

• Love, Amy Website
• It Only Takes One Amy’s Podcast

• Amy Nobile's Books

Connect with Disarming Data:

• David Biderman on LinkedIn