Creating Healthy Communications with James ‘Fish’ Gill | Letting Go of Projections and Honoring Your Emotional Experiences
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In this episode of The Observatory, James ‘Fish’ Gill joins the show to discuss building healthy relationships, letting go of projections, and owning our emotional experiences. Jame Gill is a...
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[05:57] The habitual patterns of communication
[08:56] Projection: how to know we are projecting and its dangers
[12:00] The idea of toxic people and red flags
[14:54] An example of how false our projections are
[20:00] Letting go of the projection that a person is toxic and recognizing your experiences [24:21] The condemn-condone polarity in the world
[27:36] Why is it easy to condemn others and not honor our experiences and emotions?
[34:51] The importance of trusting your emotional experiences in building relationships
[43:41] Gendered emotional suppression that has emerged in James’ coaching
[46:00] The final barrier to owning our emotional experiences
[52:56] The right way to express our emotions and open a healthy dialog
[57:03] The indicators that we are in the conflict mode
[01:00:00] What makes big emotions?
[01:06:00] Tips to resolve conflicts and create healthy conversations
Notable Quotes:
- “There is nothing wrong with what we long for and the unmet needs underneath. It’s just the strategy to meet them that needs to change.” - James Gill [07:74]
- “The inner experience is true and accurate. The outer projection is always false” - James Gill [14:47]
- “There is no healing in making someone the villain. The healing comes in recognizing the pain and having it attended to.” - James Gill [26:06]
- “Unless we trust our emotional experience, we will be deeply unfulfilled in our relationships.” - James Gill [34:51]
Relevant links:
Website: https://www.leadbyheart.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/james_fish_gill/
Subscribe to the podcast: Apple Podcast
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