How To Create The Perfect Online Dating Profile: Why You Should Skip The Selfies

Being in a relationship is healthier than being single according to new studies. People in a relationship are just happier and happier usually makes people healthier.

But how do you "date" in today's 21st century dating scene? What are the rules and have they changed in the last 20 years or so? According to Anita Covic, Online Dating Expert with international online dating sites, profile is the most important aspect of creating a first impression when communicating online.

The profile picture is the first impression.

“We find that the most successful images show the eyes, face and a majority of the body. A picture with a smile receives more clicks to the page, where the next step of the profile creation takes part: filling out the information section,” says Covic.

Skip the selfie --- especially those taken in a mirror. Selfies are often distorted views and don’t give the best impression.

When completing the information section that covers personal preferences, the most successful profiles had these traits in common:

Be honest -- Don’t lie as you are bound to get caught.
Use a positive, upbeat voice.
Describe the things that bring enjoyment to life.
Expand on preferences. Instead of just stating a love for sports, write about which sports and why --- bicycling thru the mountains, taking in a soccer match in Brazil. When discussing travel, highlight favorite spots visited --- taking photos at Machu Picchu, enjoying a cooking class in Italy.
Share hopes and dreams.
Do not bring up former relationships. Negativity is often a deal-breaker.

Finally, don’t leave any questions unanswered. Take the time to think about the questions and read answers slowly and out loud to get the feel of how the response could be received.